Squares in the Combine Horoscope
Merkury in square with Pluto
This is an obstructive aspect. You have the ability to penetrate into your partner's psyche and know exactly how to harm him. You want to force him to adapt to your opinions and ideas, but you overlook the fact that you have an equal opponent in front of you. It could also be that one of you is simply pulling yourself out of the situation and leaving. You don't seem to know compromises and if you can place a punch below the belt, you even seem to be pleased. Only if you really try to understand your partner, you can even get acquainted with his ideas, which can have a very positive effect on the relationship. Just as you deal with yourself, same way you deal with other people, which will surely lead to some resistance, which you should not be surprised about.