Squares in the Combine Horoscope
Saturn in square with Neptune
This is a very obstructive aspect. You want to have a relationship with your partner that matches your ideal ideas, but external circumstances that may be misjudged make life difficult for you. They tend to weaken each other by these circumstances and then both of you look pessimistic and depressed into the future. If you take a more objective approach to assessing the situation, you might find that the situation does not look as bad as it is in your emotional world. If you were to praise yourself from time to time, you would have a chance to cope with this aspect. It is also possible that one of you may well judge things correctly, but the other may seem overwhelmed.